server address config docs

docs/setup/server/index.md

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 If all went according to plan, you can now access your new {{ project.name }} instance at [http://localhost:3001](http://localhost:3001)! Congrats!
 
-If you set up your server remotely, you can use `curl http://localhost:3001/api/ping` to verify the server is up and running,
+If you set up your server remotely, you can use `curl http://localhost:3001/api/ping` to verify the server is up and running
 (you should set up a reverse proxy, next!).
 
+# Connecting from remote machines
+
+For your server to be a bit more useful to those not on the same machine, you'll need to do a bit more configuration.
+
+The official Spacebar client does automatic discovery of the endpoints it uses to communicate with the server,
+but it needs to retrieve those from somewhere, that being the API server.
+
+If you don't tell the API server where to find the other services, the official Spacebar client wont be able to connect.
+Other clients which don't do automatic discovery will be, but that's because your users will need to provide the locations manually.
+
+We'll be doing some [server configuration](configuration) in this step, which is stored in your servers database by default.
+By default, Spacebar uses an SQLite database in the project root called `database.db`, but you might not want to use that for production.
+[If you're going to switch databases, do it now.](database.md)
+
+Once you've opened your database, navigate to the `config` table. You'll see 2 columns named `key` and `value`.
+You'll want to set the `value` of the rows with the following keys to the correct values.
+
+| key                      | value                                                    |
+| ------------------------ | -------------------------------------------------------- |
+| `api_publicEndpoint`     | Your API endpoint. Likely `"https://DOMAIN_NAME/api/v9"` |
+| `cdn_publicEndpoint`     | Your CDN endpoint. Likely `"https://DOMAIN_NAME`         |
+| `gateway_publicEndpoint` | Your Gateway endpoint. Likely `"wss://DOMAIN_NAME`       |
+
+!!! warning "You must wrap these `value`s in doublequotes as they are parsed as JSON!"
+
+If you're in the CLI for this, heres some template SQL:
+
+=== "SQLite"
+
+    ```sql
+    update config
+    set value = '"HTTPS_OR_WSS://SERVER_ADDRESS"'
+    where key = "THE_SERVICE_NAME_endpointPublic";
+    ```
+
 ## Now what?
 
 Well, now you can configure {{ project.name }} to your liking!